Here is my latest plea to get her to remove her twisted lies from her blog. Hope none of you ever run into another blogger like this one. God Bless!

My latest plea:

Nancy, I am putting together a fax to send to blogstream regarding your "abuse" tomorrow... showing that you continue to post comments ABOUT me, and yet, due to your insecurities, I am left with no way to defend myself, does the word "slander" mean anything to you? We can handle matters this way (by my sending the fax, for starters)... that is fine with me. Or you can perhaps, manage to muster up, even a little bit of class, and let this dead horse die! WHY are you still interested? WHY this obsession? Have you ever taken an HONEST look at why you have such a need to hang on to this? And if you do know what introspection really means...apply it to your need to keep this alive. Of course, from my perspective it makes perfect sense... you are only interested in things you can "control!" My point from the beginning. Thank you for prooving it...yet again. Since, at this point that is ALL you are doing. Much love... Macey

Sorry to say all... but I have tried to reach "Nancy" and appeal to whatever small amount of ethics she might possess. Yet it would appear that she has none. You see, she has blocked both myself and Real World from commenting or contacting her privately on her blog. Her insecurities have caused her to run and hide. However, she has convinced herself, that it is ethically acceptable to post "edited": cut...pasted...deleted...reworded... comments on her blog about us... knowing that we cannot respond. How much more do you need to see folks... to be convinced that this "woman" is a tunnel-visioned, limited, vindictive, and yes... frightened by wisdom... soul??? This whole situation is so sad. And now so "controlled" by a woman who does not want the world to read all of the "dead on" points I have made about her accusations. But as we all know... in the end... the truth shall come to fruition! Much love... Macey

Sorry to say folks, that there was a young girl who used to blog here. She has a very rough home life, and had reached out here as a sort of "lifeline." Trisha conducts herself in a mature manner 99% of the time. Her blog was very creative and many other teens responded to her there. Now we all know that none of them are supposed to chat and all. But Trisha (who is only one among at least 20 teens who frequent the chat board) was embraced by the usual chatters there. UNTIL Nancy came looking for her. She attacked Trisha (as was witnessed by at least three other bloggers) and began to feel humiliated. As most teenagers do, she responded with foul language in defense of herself. Not nice, I know... but truly common. However, in retaliation... in a completely unnecessary, controlling, "power trip" of a move... Nancy has had this young girl's account closed. Even after I pleaded with her not to, since this supposed battle was between her and I. I had mistakenly believed she was capable of being a caring, mature, adult. I was wrong. Good on ya' Nancy... you just took away an innocent teenager's lifeline! And why??? Because she thought she was protecting her friends! You have used much worse descriptors than she had. And your blog is about control??? Sorry folks, but for the whole story on this woman... you would need to read from the bottom up. And anytime Nancy talks of a restraining order, that comes from some accusation she has made concerning Real World. Also she comments about usurping her work here, and yet she has posted things from Real World's blog many times on her own. I feel that if you are going to post about me incessantly, and then delete my comments so that I cannot defend myself... well, that, gives me EVERY RIGHT to respond here, what other choice do I have? I apologize about the fact that you have to go back to page 2 to even begin... but between her novel-long provocations that took me as long to get her to understand in my responses.. well... it is long running... to say the least! By the way... for anyone who is interested... my real blog is called "Can't Get Enough". Much love...Macey

This was the last post... hopefully FOREVER, by this Nancy person. Again... it has been cut, pasted, comments deleted, etc., all in an attempt to make herself appear "attacked." I am confident, if you read the post here on this blog from the bottom up, you will see the real picture. Also, feel free to go and read the post on the blog called Afterlife, by Real World. It is in his archives and entitled "Karma." That is how this whole mess started, as you can read in more detail on my first post here. Thank you all for stopping by... and hopefully... THIS IS THE LAST OF IT....Much love... Macey

Her Words (hundreds of thousands)

Mon 7/24 - Tues 7/25 2006
Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Hello Nancy... sorry but I feel the need to step in at this point... my wife is a very well respected and successful therapist, with the world's biggest heart. I was curious as to why she was spending almost all of her free time on the computer lately. So she gave me the background, basically about this situation. She has spent a lot of time here trying to help defend another blogger (as she tells me they are called.) I have taken the time to read your blog as well as her on-line friend, Real World's... and now I see why she has stayed in the fight. My lady has a heart of gold, and an inner drive to defend anyone who has experienced unnecessary bullying. From what I have read... she has put a lot of work into trying to help you, but now I feel the need to voice my opinion. Her schedule is VERY busy... and although her heart is in the right place Mam, unless you are willing to pay her fee of $120.00 per hour, I think she would be of more value with her clients that need her. She is not happy that I am writing to you, but I feel strongly that you needed an eye-opening. I read her notes that she had written at work today, on a response she was going to send to you... and I did agree to pass this on to you, if she would let me speak my mind... so in honor of my baby...(her words)..."Nancy... you can delete all comments here, but Real World is compassionate and savvy enough to expose you on his site. All of my comments are there, thanks to the fact that he is a caring gentleman. By the way... if you really want me (her) to stop commenting here... send me a PM (whatever that means) being honest and saying that you have had enough... this way you can tell me what I already know, and still save face. And I will gladly leave as this is so very tedious, predictable, and yes boring. OR... anytime you comment TO or ABOUT me, you will hear FROM me! Stay off of Real Worlds blog, condition number two...or deal with me... your choice. And hey, maybe your next post could be on "301.83"... Look it up in the current DSM"! OKAY... that was the end of her notes, but now I am asking that you leave my wife free to help those who need her...please. You have no idea who this lady is... she is my Mugwai (her icon) for a reason. Please move on... Mr. Mason

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply
Comment: Do what you will Nancy... but do not disrespect my husband... he is a good man. And thinks he is doing the right thing.... you need to tread very carefully here....MACEY, MSW

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Whatever your concern with some ISP is... sorry but I don't get it.. and don't care miss nancy and rocko... but wow!!! Wow!!! Anyway.... join us tomorrow guys... okay?

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Hun... you are right, my husband could be a therapist... but not yours. You are still applying the same tactic here... smoke screen....post...smoke screen...post...smoke screen...post...BUT now since you have both exposed and embarassed yourself on chat... well then... looking forward to your next feeble attempt... it should be fun angel... see ya' then! Much love....Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........"rocko,"...............good point................

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Ladies, I have no idea what your reference to my IP means. I live in Eastern Oregon... not a very populated area... we only have a couple of choices... People PC recently set up in the area, and that's who I use. I hope that helps to calm your paranoia. Nancy, I am sorry that Trisha got involved in all of this... I have tried for months to keep everyone out of this... and if you don't believe that, well, trust me, you would have a LOT more comments if I hadn't. We are a very bonded group on chat. We are there to relax and have fun. So when you came on last night and went after Trisha, it did not go over well at all. She has a very hard life, and yes she is 14, but the chatroom has embraced her because she usually conducts herself in very mature manner. But you made her feel attacked (hmmmmmmmmmmm....) and even you should know that when a teenager feels threatened... they often resort to foul language in attempt to vent their anger. Not nice, not effective, but very common. Anyway... you mentioned wanting to meet on chat... your choice... but it will not go well for you...even if you bring your toady Rocko. I will be on at 6:00, stop by if you wish. Who knows perhaps that will put an end to this garbage once and for all. And by the way ladies...if my actions don't appear to be those of a therapist...again... that is because I am not trying to be your therapist! I am respoonding as a fellow blogger and have actually presented some very professional posts in the process, some of which have been (conviniently) deleted by Miss Control Freak herself. Enjoy the day... maybe I'll chat with you later Nancy. Much love... Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Deleted... again? Oh well, just wanted to mention that I would hope that you would not have Trisha kicked off the blogstream... she is a lonely young lady who has reached out here because of her home life. Being here is a sort of "lifeline" for her, and for you to do so simply because you can... would be well... nothing more than a power trip on your part. See YA! Much love... Macey

From: mizmace (Reply)
Message: Oh Miss Nancy... just like the school yard bully... talk, talk, talk,... and then when you realize that "good" people have "good" friends...just like rocko...you crawl back into your hole!!! I know you are agonizing here... I mean... show up... and be shown for who you really are... or don't show... and everyone will know WHY. But hey, you could go with plan "B"... and leave a post tomorrow stating that some unforeseen occurance came up... and you simply could not be here! What a joke, old girl... but after tonight... YOU have officially been exposed... so leave me, and Real World ALONE!!! No more comments... ANYWHERE!!! GOT IT??? IT'S OVER NANCY...FINALLY!!!!! Much love.... Macey

And this just in from "Twinky", which WILL be reported to Abuse. It is a 'threat' sent on the internet. And THIS is what Mz Macey thinks is OK, just kid stuff? How does a child ever learn to be responsible for their actions if they can get away with and/or be encouraged by an adult for their 'intelligence' when they act out in this manner?

10:26 PM, July 25, 2006. (cleaned up by me)
From: twinky (Reply)
Message: ur rude u thretien ppl u evil old b**ch..u need to watch ur self u old lady...like i said b4 leave MY FRIENDS ALONE OK SO U AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

THE END.

Consider what you see here. The MULTITUDE of comments and private messages that have gone up in just 2 days, besides the ones on Newbies that I failed to collect or did not delete. Looking at it all, it begins to be pretty clear why some poor woman somewhere had to seek a restraining order.

Does anyone consider this a rational act of a person and friends, who have not had a visit from me in over a month? I cannot change the truth, I cannot ease the conscience. I told it like I saw and read it, gave my comments for a week or so, and then left. They brought it to me, and they should never forget that.

Anything else that comes to this blog or my mail from these people, anything that I see that is usurped and used elsewhere, will be considered 'stalking' and WILL be reported to whatever authorities that are at my disposal.

Here is yet another post from her blog. Sorry for the length, that is what I mean by obsessive. In fact, truth be told I have not even read this cut, pasted, deleted version. Too long, too much non sense. But again... it is here for all "who care" to see. Since this is what she had done... and then constantly deletes my comments. Again, folks, you have to read from the first post up... it's a scarey blog sometimes. Beware of such stalkers folks...Much love Macey

Her Words (Again)

Sun July 23 - Mon July 24 2006

Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Ahhhhhhh, it finally happened, as is often the case with borderline personality types. You could not face the true issues, you resorted (incessantly) to attempting to pretend that these comments have NOTHING to do with your blog.... and in reality... they have EVERYTHING to do with your blog. You have labeled Real World, a "classic control freak." And that does not pertain to your blog? Are you feeling okay? You were hoping that you could spew your verbal diahrea and then we all would feel intimidated, and "go away." When that didn't happen, you became frustrated and scared that others would see your limitations and sickness. Next you tried name calling... that made you look even more foolish. Now that you have realized you are dealing with a professional...your ONLY option is to....ummmmmm...."CONTROL" matters, by deleting my comments. Thank you for the compliment... you have confirmed my intial assessments of your condition. And to think, all I wanted was to see that you were as "intelligent," as you had initially appeared. I truly believed you would look at just how visciously you attacked a fellow blogger, one who you say you don't even know??? And yet, you say you understand the dynamics of control... Nancy... you really don't see that as a control issue? If not... then please don't profess to understand such dynamics. People are counting on you for the truth here, and you could have appeared so much more authentic... admitting to our shortcomings is a sign of being a well balanced individual. But here we stand... with you in "control," because ironically THAT is all that matters to you. Sorry I struck such a nerve, but of course I know what I am doing by now... 20 years as a therapist, and you thought I wouldn't know how to expose you? But now that I have... I will be banished from your "kingdom!" And that is okay... because, in doing so, you have given me the evidence I had already assumed you would give, to know that you cannot handle this situation, or my strength. You know Nancy..."anyone" can read and regurgitate a text book or article, but it takes a wise and genuine individual to really represent what they say. Carry on... I know I will, and knowing that, as easy as it may have been... I have read you right from the beginning. And oh, by the way... if you choose to "delete" my comment, as you inevitably will, then do not MAKE any further comments in reference TO me...unless... you would like me to return with a vengeance.... we both know you don't want me to expose you any further... so enjoy your "copied" blog... too bad you couldn't offer folks something other than a look at already published material. Even "I" thought there was more to you than that. Love me or else... well at least that is a good beginning... but it would fit so much better if you re-named it... love me or else...a self-portrait. Love me or else..by Nancy! Love me or else... bye Nancy!MUCH LOVE... MACEY

Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: But read fast folks... this one will not last long!
Much love... Macey

Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: One "last" comment miss Nancy... you can go ahead and delete this... but how many read it before you could? And then they will return to see your desperate attempt to "control" when I am no longer here....oh my... what can one do? Much love... Macey

Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Good job... right into my hands... but that is where you have always been... sorry to have been so hard on you... but Nancy... you know why...Much love... Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Question: Why delete my last comment(s)... and not the rest of your "Newbie" post as you do not need it anymore? Hope you get help old gal...even at your age.. life could be different. Talk to all of these "therapists" you know... ask them about a borderline personality... your life could be so different! Much love... Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: ROTFL............honey... "cleaning up" seems to be your only talent... floors and all... You are what life refers to as a "bottom feeder!" At best. But... you could change...even Charles Manson could! Much love... Macey Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh, hurry nancy, hurry, before anyone sees...DELETE, DELETE, DELETE!!!! Are you okay now? Relax... old gal... you can still get help......... really!

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Checkmate!!! Delete me, and in doing so, it demonstrates that I have been right all along. OR... post me... and then you have to post 'ALL' of me... or I will [post the rest]! Either way... the real "Nancy" is about to be revealed. Sorry hun, but hopefully this will make you think twice before "attacking" a fellow blogger..."without" cause. Much love... Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: RealWorld (Reply)
Comment: Yes Macey, you need to cut this out, or Rocky will have to take her toys and run back to mommy and tell on you!

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: I see my "experiment" worked... and it was even easier than I thought... all I had to do is post a few comments, making myself "look" like a "control freak," and, as expected... you left them on the board. But yet, my last "informative" post that pointed out Nancy's true need to control... has conveniently been deleted. Picking and choosing in order to present one side, and/or a skewed image... IS a direct attempt to... guess what? "CONTROL!!!" And so this will will likely be chosen for deletion as well. But that's okay... I have saved every commment from here as I knew I would need to protect myself... so that if and when I need to, I can display the ENTIRE exchange for all to see. Carry on guys! I have not read your next "response" Nancy, but even without doing so... I am guessing it includes at least one attempt to resort back to personal name calling, so to speak. And my behavior is childish??? Much love... Macey

Blog: Love Me--Or ELSE!
Post: NEWBIES
URL: http://abuseforcontrol.blogstream.com/v1/pid/99377.html
From: mizmace (Reply)
Comment: Ok, I read your latest post, and "surprise," I was right (personal attack)! Please don't flatter yourself Nancy, I hardly exist to read your comments, but even with my busy schedule, I can, and will, always make time to defend another person who has been wronged. Just because I don't run away from you, an experience you seem to be used to, and comfortable with, does not mean I have "problems." And if you weren't afraid to present the whole picture here, I would guess that most who followed it through from beginning to end (including you incessant posting on Real World's blog) would easily see the truth. God Bless.. and much love... Macey